Evaluating Your School Year

We have FOUR MORE WEEKS of school left (I know!) and I am shifting into the mode of wrapping up subject matter and thinking about how the year went. In general, I think the year went well.

This is our 5th year schooling from home, and to be honest, I never thought we would get this far. It took me so long to decide to homeschool, and then, after I began, one of things that gave me comfort was the thought that “I can stop at anytime.”  There were days where I thought: “What am I doing?” and even this year I have considered throwing in the towel. But here I am.

This is a great time for you to evaluate how your year went.

Let’s go back to the beginning of the year.

I have started making goals for both of my boys at the beginning of each year. This helps me have loose (and I like them really loose) expectations for them.

For my both my 4th and 7th graders, I set personal goals, spiritual and academic goals at the beginning of the year and about three weeks ago, I took a look to make sure we did some of them.

Let’s talk about them in further detail.

Academically speaking, I wanted my 7th grader to strengthen his skills in the areas of division, fractions and decimal work.  We were able to get to the first two in earnest, but just touch on the last one.  I also felt strongly that I needed to start exposing him to engineering science and until about 3 weeks ago, I had no idea how we were going to get there. Then a fellow homeschooler invited my boys to participate in this program run through the Department of Defense called Starbase. Both of my boys had a week-long experience using Computer Aided Drafting and Design applications and learning about the engineering design process.

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For my 4th grader, I wanted him to improve his writing skills. He has dysgraphia, so writing in general is super tough and exhausting.  I employed a tutor one time a week this year to help him answer comprehension questions and write.  He has done a lot more this year than he would have with me alone.  And to my shagrin, he writes a lot more with her, than me.  At least it’s getting done.  She does use CANDY as a reward.

I also wanted him to start writing cursive and we just began that about 4 weeks ago.

Spiritually speaking, I wanted the younger to start praying out loud and I wanted my 7th grader to start having his own, individual time with God. He now reads every night before he starts his nighttime routine.

Some things that didn’t happen…and yes, there are definitely a few…

I wanted my 7th grader to write a biographical paper. We started to…but I don’t think we will finish it in time.

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One side note, is that although we didn’t set it as a goal, we read A LOT this year. We pushed through a ton of books and audio books.  Insert happy face.

Time to evaluate! How do you feel like your kids did?  What did they improve in? What do they need to make continual progress in?

 

 

 

15 Great Projects to Educate Your Kids Without Them even Realizing it!

I know how you feel mom.  It’s February and you’re in a rut.  So are the kids, and they show it by not really wanting to buckle down for homeschool.

February and March are two of the worst months in homeschooling for that reason.  Those are the months that you have to FIND the energy you had tons of in September. Three more months to go! (Unless you’re a year-round schooler).

It’s times like this when you need to mix it up a little and implement a few plan B’s (or C’s, or D’s).

Try one of these “educational” (shhhhh!) ideas to gets their minds going again!

Math

Math Art by “What Do We Do All Day?”

Heart Shaped Puzzle

Tessellations/M.C.Escher

Fibonacci Sequence/Fibonacci Art/Mondrian

Concentric Circles/Kandinsky

Foldable Geometric Shapes

 

Science

Shadow Sculptures

DIY Bouncy Balls

Magnet Painting

Shaving Cream Rain Clouds

Color Mixing Spinning Tops

Kids Container Gardening

 

Handwriting

Improving Handwriting with Art

Fine Motor Worksheets

Cursive Name Bugs

 

 

Many thanks to all the awesome blogs collected on this page!

 

When Your Homeschooling (or just Mommy) Needs a Fresh Start Part II

We’re back with part two of When Your Homeschooling (or just Mommy) Needs a Fresh Start.

This is a three-part series in which I will discuss the practical steps to re-evaluating your homeschool schedule and curricula and mood to see if you need to make changes.

If you were attracted to the title of this blog post, it’s probably because you can relate.  You are tired, frustrated, irritated and down about the lack of cooperation, or the lack of (what you consider) education which is occurring on a daily basis in your school-space.

I can relate.  Some days, I am like:  “What’s the point!?” No one wants to listen, they just want to do the “easy” stuff and they has no interest in actually sitting down to work. It’s so irritating, moms!

So,what is a mom to do?

First I would be remiss if I didn’t talk about your FEELINGS.

Feelings will come with a vengeance as you go through the process of homeschooling your children.  Why?  Because we are human, and as much as we love them, our keeps make us crazy sometimes!

Some of the feelings I have heard moms reflect about include: loneliness, frustration, confusion, dissatisfaction, disgruntlement and resentment.  And that’s all before noon!  Ha!  Just kidding.

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This blog post would be incomplete if I didn’t acknowledge that we feel a lot about our kids and their learning.  But, here’s the important thing (and just my humble opinion), although emotions are central and even influential in our decision making when it comes to homeschooling, they are not the only factors to consider.

The are part of the story, but not the whole story.

IDENTIFY THE CORE ISSUES AND PROBLEMS

A frank (realistic/factual) evaluation of your current homeschool situation may be necessary.  What is working? What is not working?  There could be a whole range of problems popping up.  A few examples include:

–  Kids lacking interest in the material
– Kids saying that it’s too hard/too easy/too boring
– Mom’s schedule has changed and doesn’t have time to instruct as much
– Mom is feeling disorganized and unprepared for the school day
– There is an illness/unemployment/change of family dynamic occurring in the family
– You have teenagers (no, seriously)

These are just a few things.   I have experienced all of these things in my 5 years homeschooling. So, now, take some time, with a nice cup of tea or coffee and a notebook to think this through.  Answer the following questions.

First take the time to answer this question:Why did I choose to homeschool?

Of course all our answers may be different.  Go back to what your intentions were.  What you desired before you started hitting roadblocks.

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My litle ‘distraction.’

What problems and issues am I seeing on a daily basis in my homeschool?

ex: Son complains that the work is boring and too hard
ex. Toddler is causing distractions
ex. Daughter wants to do the least possible work before she quits

Do I feel like the curriculum I am currently using is a good fit for my child? Why or why not.

ex. No, because my child needs more hands-on work and it’s a lot of reading and writing.
ex. Yes, because it’s based in literature and she loves to read.
ex. No, because my son has ants in his pants and can’t sit still.
ex. No, because mom has taken on a part-time job and needs daughter to be more independent.

Do I like the curriculum? Do I like teaching from it?

YOU CAN ASK THIS.  It’s ok.  You have to like it too.  You have to enjoy the work or else, guess what? You will hate it and avoid it like the plague.

Do I feel I need to research other options for my childs’ learning or will making an adjustment in another area suffice?

My son who has dysgraphia (handwriting difficulty) needed a change 2 years ago.  He couldn’t get through the work without pooping out. I decided to implement a keyboard for his writing instead of pushing him to write and write. A change in our schedule or his diet would not have helped that situation!

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Which pencil grip is best?

Are my children getting enough time outside of the house?  Are they spending too much time out of the house?

Is your schedule crazy?  Maybe mom in her zeal over-committed to too many activities.  Or maybe the kids need some stimulation from a different source.

Are they getting enough sleep and eating well?

This is so important.  I have a night owl. And I have had to reign him back in several nights when he wanted to stay up past midnight.

Do I feel like the choices I am making in my homeschool are in sync with the goals I have for my children?

I have a strong passion for nature. One of the things I find very important is making sure the boys and I get outside – go hiking, for walks, garden etc. If I find that our schedule is making us too tired to do these things, then that is a red flag for me.

And finally,

Are the issues I am seeing a signal that I need to pull in resources from the community?

Do you need to perhaps use the expertise of a professional?  I got an Occupational Therapist involved with my son who was having trouble writing. Does your child  need OT, Speech Therapy, or some other assistance?  A side note: This is NOT a failure on your part. Part of homeschooling, in my opinion, is using the expertise of people in the community who can help your children be successful and therefore make your homeschooling experience successful as well.

Part III will be focused on the resources you can use after you have answered these questions!

I hope this has set your mind to thinking!  I am with you heart and soul!

Jenny